We are going to explain the most Common Mistakes People Make While Using The Law of Attraction.
When people first learn about the law of attraction, they’re not able to contain their excitement. They feel like they have received the keys to the universe and can instantly manifest anything their heart desires. But when they start using this law, they realize that things are not as easy as they had imagined. They realize that using the law of attraction (LoA) is a skill that needs to be mastered over time.
And as with any other skill, you are bound to make mistakes when you are developing it. So, if you’re wondering, “Why is the law of attraction not working for me,” you should know that it takes time to master. So, have patience and faith. You will get there. In the meantime, you can learn about the common mistakes people make while using the law of attraction so that you can avoid them.
Law of Attraction Mistakes You Should Avoid
1) Not Being Specific Enough
When people first start using the law of attraction, they tend to ask for things in a general sense. For example, if someone wants money, they ask the universe for “a lot of money.” This is a mistake. It’s like going to a restaurant and asking for a lot of food. While you are not technically wrong, the waiter can only bring you things that you specifically order.
What you need to do is be specific with your wishes. If you want money, tell the universe exactly how much money you need. If you want a car, tell the universe exactly which one you want. If you need a job, ask for a specific position at a specific company. If you are not sure about the specifics, you need to first introspect a little and come up with concrete wishes.
2) Starting Off With Something Big
Most people, when they first learn about the law of attraction, try to manifest their biggest dreams first. It could be a million dollars, a mansion, a sports car, the perfect partner, etc. Now, from the perspective of the universe, there is no such thing as a big dream or a small dream. For the universe, materializing a car is as easy as materializing a cup of coffee.
But the difference surely exists in the minds of the people. They think that it is easier to manifest small things than big things. So, when they try to manifest a big dream, they are not able to have complete faith that the universe will bring it to them. Instead of letting out vibrations of faith, they let out vibrations of doubt. And this is why their dream doesn’t get manifested. So, it’s better to start off with small wishes and build your faith over time.
3) Being In A Lower Vibrational State
The law of attraction is based on the simple principle that “like attracts like.” This basically means that the universe brings to you things, people, and situations that have the same vibrational frequency as you. In other words, the type of vibrations you exude decides what gets manifested in your life. For example, if you exude positivity, the universe will give you more things to be positive about.
Now, if you are in a low vibrational state, your dreams will obviously not get manifested. Let’s say you want a brand new car. However, if you are exuding vibrations of lack, doubt, jealousy, etc., the car will not get manifested in your life. Instead, you will only manifest negative things that will further make you feel lacking, doubtful, or jealous.
4) Clinging To Your Desires
This is another common law of attraction mistake that most people make. After they have asked the universe for their desire, they keep clinging to it. They become so attached to the desire that they keep thinking about it day and night. At first glance, this may seem like a good thing. After all, the more you think about something, the more vibrations get sent into the universe.
However, most people’s attachment to their desires leads them to desperation and impatience. They wake up every day feeling disappointed that they have still not manifested their desire. So, they end up sending all the wrong types of vibrations into the universe. And, as the law says, like attracts like. No exceptions!
5) Not Being Mindful of Your Words
When you are using the law of attraction, you need to be mindful of your words and thoughts. Sometimes, even when you think you are asking for the right thing, you might be doing it the wrong way. Let’s say you want a lot of money so that you can pay off all your debt. Now, instead of asking for a specific amount of money, you might ask the universe to take away your debts. You might say something like, “I want to be debt-free.”
Now, the problem here is that even though “debt-free” is technically a good thing, it still has the word “debt” in it. So, instead of giving you money, the universe might give you more debt! Yes, sometimes the universe does work in mysterious ways. But fear not! All you need to do is make sure that your words are only positive in nature. If you want money, just make it about the money. If you want perfect health, just make it about health.
6) Fearing Change
When you ask for something, the universe has to change a few things in your life to bring it to you. For example, if you want your dream job, you may need to be fired from your current job first! When that happens, you may think that something negative has happened to you, and so, you might start fearing the law of attraction!
This happens to a lot of people. They do everything right in their manifestation process, and the universe begins to respond to their wishes. But when these people begin seeing changes in their lives, they become uncomfortable and want to undo everything. The result is that their dream slips away from their hands just as it was being materialized.
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